You all must have experienced it at some point of your life, of course me too.
Saying of changes, let me begin first with the reference in which I am talking of changes.
Every individual in our life had got certain distinguishable unique impressions.
We assign each of them a certain set of characteristics which we expect from them ( because they always show these traits )
For example ; Surya,my roomie We met into the first year of our college (same room) initially I thought him of a moron (seriously) but later I figured out that he's hell of moron. Seriously I hate such kinda people but due course of time this shits became a unique characteristic of Surya which makes me to be compatible with him.
CHANGES:
Suppose suddenly Surya gets serious and wise , What it would be look like, obviously I would feel that something isn't right with him or he might be in some tension ( although he may or may not be in problem) .
It's quiet strange that sudden drop of a trait marks the sign of something not being good.
People don't want changes if their past situation was much happier and changes are making them to feel bad.
Its not your fault, its all fault of physics ( law of inertia) its physics who is not letting you to accept changes because its a universal law that things opposes change in their physical state.( and you are made up to atoms ,so it applies to you too ),
THE TRANSFORMATION PHASE:
It is always painful, transformation phase is always unpleasant ,
Let me take an example to better feel you what i wanna say
You must have been to hospitals isn't it , you must have seen different kinds of patients ,
One thing you know a patient suffers maximum pain during surgery ( i.e The transformation phase)
He suffers less pain before surgery and no dobt very less pain after the surgery ,, BUT The duration in which he was operated and subsequent few days he suffers the most.
My example was crappy ( yeah i know ) but you can observe yourself that transformation phase is always painful.
